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You can not live your life in fear of what could be. That will spin you off in a circle and before the end of it all, you're back where you started. Life is a series of surprises which are the reason we keep pushing forward, eager to at least possess a certain degree of control over our destinies and it can not always end up the way you want it to. If it did, where would be the fun in that?

True, some situations trap you in a magnetic field of self-doubt, and if while going through the pages of history you realise no one ever made it out alive, you may feel there is indeed no way out. But there always is. Only if you get out of your very own mental prison and explore that which no one ever tried. That which they all feared. You could find your answers in that forbidden trip of change. Finding success in life is achieved through facing your deepest fears.

If somebody tells you that you will fail,
you WILL fail if you believe them. It is not everyone in your life that wishes you the very best. Some of them just say you will fail because it scares them that you will succeed and best them. They see you as competition and they can not stomach the idea of you ever being more than they are. In the end it all melts down to one thing: Agenda.

Some of the very close people to you have been wishing for you to never make it. The very person whose shoulder you cry on could be patting your back with a smile. They might even have had a hand in the events that led to your misfortune, who knows? Whenever something goes right in your life, whoever is there, genuinely there will walk through it with you. They will not just utter the words "I'm happy for you" and never show their face again.

Those who do that can not stand to see you happy but once you hit rock bottom, they will be there all the time. Why? Because nothing gives them greater pleasure than seeing you at your lowest. People aren't always who they say they are. Friends could be enemies. Even family. Especially Family. Just be careful who you open up to. They could use it against you for their own gain. Just remember not to let anyone ever stand between you and your dreams/happiness.

Take Care

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