This doesn't in any way under the sun compare to losing a lover. Because it's never going to be the same. And nothing prepares you for it. It's like running in an open road and then BAM! Out of nowhere, you hit a brick wall. you don't see it coming.
Friends are people you call for any occasion. You wanna go out clubbing? Friends. You wanna go shopping? Friends. You wanna go just mess with people?(Like what me and someone did in Vegas) Friends. And even if you have that someone special in your life, friends are a necessity.
Friends know so much about you! Even those imperfections and bits you'd rather keep from your woman, or man. They've been in your life longer than your partner and it's only natural that they know more. So when they leave....sigh....when they leave you and suddenly become strangers, imagine the pain.
Now they hang with other people at your favourite spots and with them they take away your secrets and one word to the wrong people could destroy you. What do you do?
On the 20th, it was the birthday of one such friend, the lost one. I don't know what happened, things just went left...and being estranged from her hurts. But what can I do, she seems happy. At least I hope she is. For over 20 years we were inseparable, then she got married. Then things changed.
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