Let's talk sex. Yes. I said it. S-E-X. Sex. This is from a woman's point of view. We are also capable of "having sex" and not just making love. We know what "no strings attached" means and yes, we can get out of bed before you even get a chance to catch a breath after the deed.
Women are not naïve anymore. We are not stuck in the 19th century and throughout the years, we have come to learn so much from our counterparts. We get played so hard that eventually,we learn how to play the game as well. A woman who has been terribly hurt by physical pleasures because she attached emotional tags in the past now knows how to draw the line between sex and making love. It's a very thin line and only experts are capable of knowing which is which.
When you meet this type of woman, be careful player, she might just beat you at your own game with your own rules. Don't underestimate her. And the problem is when a self-proclaimed player meets this type, he falls for her. #sad. I've seen it happen a lot. And yet when the girls falls for him, he runs faster than Makoanyane(if you a Mosotho you know who this is). Reminds me of a line in Space Bound by Eminem: "You want them when they don't want you, soon as they do feelings change".
While casual sex may be mutually satisfying, we all know eventually if the sex is good, it's inevitable that emotions will find their way through and demolish all your perfect little world of fantasies. What then? You both run?
Believe me when I tell you this, nothing(seriously) beats the overwhelming feeling of sharing yourself with the one person you love. The one person who loves you back. Maybe someday you should try it. Soon.
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