Sleeping With The Enemy

You see them with someone new and your stomach churns and you sweat and your heartbeat races and it takes you moments before you actually calm down.

They call you and even though you promised yourself you'd never take their calls you find yourself pressing the green button and blushing your way through the call.

They say they coming over/ vice-versa, and you just drop whatever you're doing and start looking your best. Even though you practice in front of the mirror all the things you really want to say to them, you go numb around them.

Then comes the million dollar question: Would you f*ck your ex? Why? I found answers from real life people. Here's what they had to day:

Zandie*
"No, I wouldn't. He's my past and that's it. Doing that would make him disrespect me and think that I'm not over him or that I'm not happy where I am."

Moeketsi*
"No. Not at all. I can't sleep with my ex because I don't want trouble. My problem is I don't make sex casual, I have sex only with people I love. And I'm the one who ended all my past relationships, once I leave, I don't go back. I keep my distance once it's over."

Dan*
"I would if I'm not involved with anyone. Because I never date anyone I don't REALY like. So I guess it's safe to say a relationship is a life-long thing for me."

Simon*
"Lol, hell yeah! I have two reasons.
1.Because we might have broken up before I could have sex with her. Or
2.Because I simply just can't get enough of her even though she's an ex."

Relebohile*
"Yes I would. I'd just have sex. Not date. Hardcore porn type of sex just to keep things interesting.

Quinn*
"Yes I would. Depending on how things ended and how our sex life was. Seriously, you can miss your ex, regardless of how happy you are in your current relationship."

Maipato*
"Some I would. The ones whom I always wanted to bed but couldn't and said no to because I wasn't ready."

Mj*
"Nope, I wouldn't. Some things you just have to let go and yeah, even though I do sometimes lust after my ex, I wouldn't have sex with her. What we had is over and as a man, I can't be dwelling in the past."

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